"People change. Plan on it. Don’t marry someone because of who they are, or who you want them to become. Marry them because of who they are determined to become. And then spend a lifetime joining them in their becoming, as they join you in yours."
Quit playing games with their hearts, they aren’t yours to begin with, they’re His. Stop leading her on if your intention is not to be with her, BUT If choose to still lead her on, be the man to lead her to heaven and the best version of herself. You might not “love” her enough to do that, but ultimately you need to have enough respect for her worth. If you don’t know what her worth is, then I’m sorry, then you aren’t the man that you said you were and you still have a lot of maturing to do. Seek the relationship with the one True God and He’ll reveal and mold you into the person the world needs. He’ll show you people’s worth, He’ll show who you need to Be.
"If God is going to change the world, He’s not going to use people that ‘feel’ Him, but know that He is real." Feelings come and go, but truth lasts forever. People come and go, but real disciples stick together. We can’t be the Church that only when we "feel" Him, we act rightly and have our lives shine brightly. We need to be the Church that believes that He is the Way, the Truth and the Life without basing everything on feelings. Sometimes we need to be the Church that changes the world without having that "feeling" to want to change, but know in our hearts this is what we’re called to do because Our God is the one and only True.
authentic Christian couples in the world. I admit there’s a fair bit that go to church together, pray together, serve together and love the world together, but there should be more. There should be more couples practicing the gift of chastity and being open in sharing their falls and victories in testimony to a sex driven, YOLO type of lifestyle. There should be more couples at mass on Sundays praying together instead of partying the night before too hung over to make it out for an hour. More couples lined up for Confession together willing to humble themselves before a merciful God and wanting again to lead the other to be the best version of themselves once again. More couples willing to volunteer within the church or community to be the example of what it means to love one another, but also to love our neighbors. I truly believe that Christian couples that have their life Christ centered in all aspects, will inspire and make a difference in so many ways. What a beautiful gift to give back to God what He has given us…