Quit playing games with their hearts, they aren’t yours to begin with, they’re His. Stop leading her on if your intention is not to be with her, BUT If choose to still lead her on, be the man to lead her to heaven and the best version of herself. You might not “love” her enough to do that, but ultimately you need to have enough respect for her worth. If you don’t know what her worth is, then I’m sorry, then you aren’t the man that you said you were and you still have a lot of maturing to do. Seek the relationship with the one True God and He’ll reveal and mold you into the person the world needs. He’ll show you people’s worth, He’ll show who you need to Be.
"If God is going to change the world, He’s not going to use people that ‘feel’ Him, but know that He is real." Feelings come and go, but truth lasts forever. People come and go, but real disciples stick together. We can’t be the Church that only when we "feel" Him, we act rightly and have our lives shine brightly. We need to be the Church that believes that He is the Way, the Truth and the Life without basing everything on feelings. Sometimes we need to be the Church that changes the world without having that "feeling" to want to change, but know in our hearts this is what we’re called to do because Our God is the one and only True.
authentic Christian couples in the world. I admit there’s a fair bit that go to church together, pray together, serve together and love the world together, but there should be more. There should be more couples practicing the gift of chastity and being open in sharing their falls and victories in testimony to a sex driven, YOLO type of lifestyle. There should be more couples at mass on Sundays praying together instead of partying the night before too hung over to make it out for an hour. More couples lined up for Confession together willing to humble themselves before a merciful God and wanting again to lead the other to be the best version of themselves once again. More couples willing to volunteer within the church or community to be the example of what it means to love one another, but also to love our neighbors. I truly believe that Christian couples that have their life Christ centered in all aspects, will inspire and make a difference in so many ways. What a beautiful gift to give back to God what He has given us…
Whether it be in private, public or on a picnic, there is a need for Christian men to initiate prayer within their relationships. It could be on a 1st date (that’s hot) and not to exaggerate, it could even be during a reckless moment. Strive to keep Him the main component. Set aside any pride, for your possible future bride. Don’t worry if you don’t feel qualified, she and He just wants you to simply pray with her. You are called to be spiritual leaders leading your partner to Heaven. So my brethren, are you going to take on this role, will this be your ultimate goal or will you other things sneak in and corrupt your souls. All in all, pray with her, constantly. This is what we’re called to do. It’s never too late to start or start again..
No peace in the mind, no peace in the heart,
making decisions that weren’t prayed on tearing us apart
only trust in God that He’ll light the way
and having this abundance of faith by the cross that one day it’ll all be okay
sacrificing the one I’m falling in love for the one I’m in love
on my knees praying to God to show signs from above
going to different spots, trying to connect all the dots
but the vision is a bit blurred
maybe I should trust this stir He’s placed in my heart…